Tree People versus Forest People - Who Has the Advantage in Life?

I recently had someone comment on my blog about a mistake I made in my grammar. I definitely appreciated it because no one wants something that has your name attached to it to have any recognizable mistakes if you can help it. What was interesting about this person's comment, however, was that he felt the mistake made it hard for the rest of the blog to have any credibility. While I can see where this person is coming from in some respect, the actual nature of the blog had nothing to do with grammatical mistakes or how to make sure your work is always perfect. In my opinion, the mistake that person made was the classic case of missing the forest for the trees and letting truly inconsequential stuff play a much bigger part in one's life than should be.  Often there are those who take a myopic view of things and make decisions based on what they can only clearly see in front of them, as opposed to thinking about the larger, overarching purpose and view of something. This particular blog was about how to have the entrepreneurial mindset to be successful and this person was hung up on the difference between "your" and "you're." This person was caught up on a "tree" that might  have been a little ugly and worn rather than looking at the entire body of the "forest" that may have been beautiful. He's clearly what I would call a Tree person - someone who focuses on smaller things before they take into context the bigger picture. On the other hand, however, Forest People  are those who are more strategic thinkers and are always focused on the long term and what's truly MOST important, rather than just what's in front there.  There are number advantages to being a Forest Person:

BETTER ROOT-CAUSE ANALYSIS
Tree People have a tendency to only look at what's immediately in front of them to understand a problem and, sometimes, very quickly jump to conclusions about the nature of problem. Therefore, Tree People typically try to fix problems with solutions that may not be anywhere near what is needed.  Due to the fact these individuals are often very short-sighted in their scope of thinking, they immediately associate the easiest answer to a problem that appears apparent. If you don't get a project completed on time, it's because you're lazy.  If you are over-weight, it's because you eat bad.  If you don't get good grades in school, it's because you aren't smart. While there is often some truth to this, many times, there are deeper, more complicated explanations to problems and those who are constantly looking at the entire forest understand how to dissect a situation appropriately to uncover what they need to identify the best solution to the issue, not just the band-aid solution that seems to present itself immediately.

BETTER LIFE DECISIONS
Tree People generally are those who make knee-jerk decisions based on how they are feeling at that specific moment in time.  Because they often think about how this particular "tree" makes them feel, they make decisions in life based on that single issue, rather than considering that issue in relation to the entire scenario. These are the type of people who generally seem to have "issues" with people all the time and are always pointing out what others are doing wrong. They typically aren't willing to compromise in various situations because that's not "who they are." They often jump from job to job or relationship to relationship because they can't get along with someone or are "bored" with what they do/have. They don't think about the long term ramifications of always changing so frequently and not truly committing to something for a long time.  We all would like to do fun and exciting stuff as much as possible. Tree People are those who probably do it way more than they should, while Forest People are more calculated in when and with whom they do these things because they are always thinking about the big picture.

BETTER ABILITY TO HANDLE DISAPPOINTMENT
Tree people often are those individuals who can get very down on themselves when things don't go their way. They look at a mistakes they made or a rejection by someone as the end of their world and, many times, they cannot get over it. Forest people, on the other hand, realize that so many things that occur to us in life are insignificant when placed in the context of the course of ours lives and the universe. So that young lady rejected you at the club?  It's okay, there are many more out there. So you just didn't get that promotion that you were working so hard for? Don't worry, there are many more promotions out there for you to go after.  You're not quite where you want to be in life at age 50?  If you live a healthy lifestyle and make it to 80, you still have a whole 30 years to make it up.  Forest People are always looking at what something means in the context of the most important things in life, not just what is occurring at that very moment.  This allows them to weather storms so much better due to their positive attitude and focus on what needs to be done to improve the situation, rather than bemoan it.

While I'm not a camper and would consider sleeping in a forest as one of the worst things that I could ever spend time doing (my apologies to all you outdoorsy people out there), I can still appreciate what it teaches us about life.  The forest is big and can be scary at times if you get lost in it - somewhat comparable to life.  And while there is no silver bullet about how to best succeed through it, those who are consistently taking in the entire view of the forest/life have a much better chance of figuring it out, rather than those who are only focused on tree to tree.

Ken Middleton is an Account Manager at TEKsystems that specializes in IT staffing and services. He is a graduate of UNC-Pembroke and current MBA student at Scheller College of Business at Georgia Tech (Graduate in May! - Whoop Whoop!). You can follow his daily quotes of inspiration and motivation on Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIN

Life Lessons from House of Cards - Frank Underwood, The Life Coach

F. U. The initials of one Francis Underwood - so fitting for a man who generally does not take no for an answer and takes control of a situation like no other.  I've been Netflix binge-watching "House of Cards' to catch up to Season Three (I'm on the 3rd episode of Season Two now), and I've been enamored by the Southern Democrat from Gaffney, South Carolina and his ability to bend the world to his beck and call.  (Spoiler alert: I won't tell all the juicy details, but will use examples from the series in this blog, so you may want to be careful if you're not pass episode 3 of Season 2 and plan on watching it).  And while I don't condone ALL of Frank's "Ruthless Pragmatism" to get what he wants, there are some poignant lessons that one could implement in life to help climb the "life" ladder of success.

Be a Victor, Not a Victim

From the very first episode, we get a sense of who Frank Underwood is. Once he learns he is not going to be tapped for the Secretary of State position, as he was promised, he begins to formulate what his next steps are.  Admittingly, he initially folded and ran to Claire sulking about how they played him and unfair this was, but he quickly gathered himself and began to formulate a plan on how he would use this setback to help put him in a better situation in the future.  Victors are individuals who take lemons and make lemonade. They look at the set of circumstances that they've been given and then immediately begin to look for the silver lining that could lead to a better outcome than they originally hoped. They are glass-half-full type of people who understand that sulking and blaming others isn't going to truly improve the situation, and the only sensible thing to do from there is to begin executing plan B, or C, or D for that matter. They also look at what they could've done differently and why they are to blame for the current outcome of their situation.  When Francis' attempt to have Peter Russo's water bill act failed, he recognized he was partially to blame because he had not done a good enough job helping Claire feel empowered enough that she wouldn't defy him in such a manner.  Had he done a better job of giving her more earlier, she wouldn't had felt the need to jeopardize something he had on the table because she was left no choice. He felt the onus still came back to him and his ability to strategize accordingly.

Plan, Plan Again, and Then Plan Some More

Frank is by all intents and purpose a planner.  He doesn't just leave things to "chance" or have a sense of what is "supposed" to happen.  He is actively engaged in MAKING things happen. He puts a plan in place that enacts specific actions on the situation to encourage a definitive outcome. When he approaches a situation he thinks about it from as many angles as possible and then makes the best decision given the current set of circumstances. When trying to figure out how to get the Vice President to resign, he knew that he had to approach Matthew's first before going to Walker so Matthews would feel that he wasn't being pushed out. Yet, he understood that he had to approach Walker in a manner that made it seem like it was something that was the only obvious course of action considering the circumstances - not an easy balance to create. He did so with careful planning of what to say, when to say it, and how to say it to make sure he had just the perfect pitch to ensure everyone reacted as expected. Since one of Frank's favorite games, beside Playstation's Killzone 3, is chess, it makes sense that he plays life in a chess-like manner by thinking numerous steps ahead of his opponents at all times.  Strategy is about considering what your opponent may do and then preempting them with moves that will negate anything they may do to hurt your endeavors.  This takes a lot of brain power and will require one to think through all the different scenarios to make sure a key piece of information is not missing. The important thing to remember also is that Frank always has a backup plan of some kind in the event that his original plan goes astray - always a good practice to keep oneself ahead of the curve.  

Don't Underestimate Others

While this goes without saying, this is one of Frank's strongest attributes. He is consistently sizing people up and is not one who always believes what he sees is reality when it comes to various people. He made the mistake initially with Raymond Tusk and a little with Linda and learned from his mistake quickly.  Using himself as the example of "what you see is not what you always get", Frank does not underestimate what others may be capable of and treats them as such.  One of the main reasons Frank has been so successful in his endeavors for so long is that people consistently underestimate him. Often when people don't think much of their competition, they tend to get a sense of arrogance and lose their drive to consistently get better at their craft. When this happens, you put yourself at risk of losing a promotion or client because your competition kept working to get better while you rested on your laurels. Competition is healthy for any economy because it ensures that all businesses will continually improve their services to win the loyalty of the consumer. In life, consistently measuring oneself against what others may bring to the table keeps us working to improve our game, and by not underestimating anyone, we stay proficiently motivated to bring our A game every day.

Politics.  If they are anything like House of Cards, I can truly see why our government is so dysfunctional at times.  Luckily, we have the world of Netflix to preoccupy us as we spend entire weekends locked in our homes only to come out for sunlight and fresh air from time to time. While Frank Underwood is no role model by any stretch of the imagination, there are a number of lessons one can learn from this sleek talking country boy that could help one's career trajectory immensely. And while I doubt that they will ever lead you to become the President of the United States, you never know...

Ken Middleton is an Account Manager at TEKsystems that specializes in IT staffing and services. He is a graduate of UNC-Pembroke and current MBA student at Scheller College of Business at Georgia Tech (Graduate in May! - Whoop Whoop!). You can follow his daily quotes of inspiration and motivation on Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIN